Monday, September 16, 2013

Week 5: Oh the People You Meet



After four weeks of training the 59 Bots 14 were sent all around the country for shadowing. This meant that 5am Sunday I was picked up by the Peace Corps van and taken to the bus rank (terminal) along with 35 other Peace Corps Trainees who all boarded a bus to Gaborone (Gabs). In Gabs my amazing host, Terri met me and I found the rus rank to be far less intimidating then I thought it would be. Ah, traveling by bus, no problem its affordable and convenient. I felt like a Botswana travel maven, until I realized I did not complete any aspect of this journey on my own, someone was holding my hand the entire trip (since I was traveling with Americans and not Batswana I do not mean this literally). Although I do not deserve the credit for a smooth trip I do feel prepared for my next bus endeavor. Flash to the return trip which ended with me peeling myself off the person sitting next to me since our combined leg sweat fused us together from the waist down, yep still feel like a Botswana bus maven.

Kanye is a little less then two hours outside of the capital and is a village of approximately 50,000. I was shadowing at a senior secondary school which includes form four and form five, roughly the equivalent of junior and senior year of high school in the States. Due to various life complications this meant that some of the students were as old as 25 and consequently a few years my senior. As a Peace Corps Life Skills volunteer I will be placed with a counter part who is in the guidance department and could be co-teaching classes on life skills ie goal setting, self-confidence, etc. However, as with all Peace Corps activities this all depends on my location, but this is the reality for my host.

At the school I was introduced during the all school assembly. This included all 1,800 students thus leading me to smile and I hoped look mature or more accurately foolish in front of all of the student body. I am not sure how well the whole mature” look worked for me since many people then continued to ask how old I was (still baby Bangert no matter where I go).  Student’s guesses ranged between 13 and 30. Mind you the students guessing my age were between 16 and 20 with a handful in their mid-twenties. I am going to chalk the 13 year-old guesses up to a language barrier and misunderstanding the question. Right? I may have a baby face but 13…

Terri’s counter part in the guidance department is a very progressive thinker and a genius at what he does. I was privileged enough to watch him have conversations with various individuals about extremely rough topics where I would have lost my cool and been ineffective. He was firm yet graceful in all of these conversations. Unfortunately problems of male chauvinism and sexual assault are not unique to the states and happen around the world. The conversations I was privy to in the guidance office in Kanye were all to familiar to me and resembled conversations I had on my college campus.

This week has reminded me of the power of positive people. Terri is an amazing woman with her fair share of struggles that she talks candidly about thus sharing her strength. It has been incredibly empowering to have an example of a woman who has over came hardship and continues to push herself. Also she makes a mean grilled cheese, which was all the more delicious because cheese is hard to come by.
Also keep an eye out for a video of me doing aerobics in sandals with socks, yep I am a classy lady!  Where might you find this video? Good question, since it was taken by a passerby I have no idea. However, I can tell you that for the extremely coordinated like myself an aerobics class is the perfect way to be humbled, have a good laugh, meet really cool Batswana ladies, and get a heart pounding workout. Next time I make it to a class I may even come prepared with gym shoes.

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